The problem
The master spreadsheet is quietly breaking you.
One partner becomes the hub, chasing every address and allergy by hand. Planning starts to feel like a second job.
- Texting the same cousin three times for one address
- Reconciling two copies of the same spreadsheet at midnight
- Digging through group chats to find a single dietary note
- Retyping meal choices one guest at a time
So we built the opposite: a guest list that fills itself.
The personal link
One personal link does the chasing for you.
Text or email each household their own page. They tap, they type, and it lands in your dashboard. No spreadsheet, no back and forth.
- Their mailing address, formatted and ready to print
- Meal choice and dietary notes
- Song requests and a note to the couple
- Plus-one names, entered by the guest themselves
- Every response syncs to both partners in real time
- No app to download, no password to forget
“I had texted my aunt three times for her address with no reply. I sent the personal link instead and it was filled in before I finished my coffee.”
Designs
Every personal link, beautifully yours.
Fourteen designed invitations, with animated reveals that open like real stationery. Switch the look in a tap, and your guests see it instantly.
Envelope
AnimatedTap to open, sealed
Accent
All 14 designs, fully customizable once you sign up.
The full platform
One system, from the proposal to the last dance.
The personal link is where most couples start. It is not where the work ends. Every tool lives in the same place, built on the same guest list.
One personal link per household. Responses land in real time, grouped by family, with meals and dietary notes attached.
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It all runs on the same guest list you already built. Nothing to enter twice.
The photo board
Every phone at your wedding, one album.
Your photographer catches the day. Your guests catch everything else, live on the reception screen.
- Guests add photos from the link they already have. No app, no QR to chase.
- Every shot lands on the reception screen, live. You approve what goes up.
- Signed by the guest who took it, never an anonymous pile.
- Yours forever, in full resolution. Nothing expires, nothing compressed.
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Marcus
118 photos and counting
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Collaboration
Bring everyone in.
A wedding is a group project. Your partner gets a full seat, and everyone else gets exactly the access that fits.
Your partner, in one click
Plan the same wedding from two phones. Every change lands on both screens as it happens.
The right access for everyone
Parents, planner, maid of honor. Each seat is scoped to what they should see and change. Nothing more.
A seat for your photographer
They deliver the finished gallery straight to your board. Photos only, never your guest list.
Why iDoTogether
Built to manage your wedding, not sell to you.
The Knot and Zola are marketplaces. Their product is your attention and your guest data. Ours is the software that keeps you sane.
Marketplaces
The Knot, Zola
- Ads and vendor spam in your inbox
- Your guest data sold to advertisers
- Built to sell you leads
- Generic forms, no personal link
- A guest list, then you are on your own
Wedding OS
iDoTogether
- No ads, not now, not ever
- Your data, exportable any time
- Built to manage, never to monetize
- One personal link per household
- Checklist, vendors, budget, and seating included
Pricing
Start free. Pay once. Own it forever.
No subscriptions and no monthly fees. Other planning tools charge $20 a month. Here, one payment covers you for life.
Free
Your wedding day, up to 50 guests.
- Every guest, household, and RSVP in one place
- Personal links, guests add their own address and RSVP
- RSVP forms that collect meals and dietary needs
- Guided checklist so nothing slips through
- Budget tracker that shows what's left
- Seating chart built from your guest list
- Vendor tracker from first call to booked
- Real time planning with your partner
- Export to CSV or PDF anytime
Complete
Everything to run your wedding.
less than one vendor deposit
- Everything in Free, plus:
- Unlimited guests, 50 or 5,000
- Unlimited events, rehearsal to brunch
- Unlimited team members
- Vendor contracts, invoices, and receipts in one place
Forever
Complete, plus the memory layer.
the photo board your guests fill
- Everything in Complete, plus:
- Photo Board, every guest photo on the big screen and yours forever
- First access to every new feature, free for life
Common questions
Everything worth knowing before you start. Still curious? Email us.
No. Your account includes the checklist, seating chart, vendor tracker, and budget, all built around the same guest list.
Yes. Your data is yours. Export to CSV whenever you want, even on the free plan. No gotchas.
We let you know. Keep managing your first 50 for free, or upgrade once to Complete for unlimited guests. Either way, you never get locked out.
Complete is everything you need to run the wedding, with no limits. Forever adds the memory layer on top, starting with the Photo Board, plus first access to future premium features.
No. Pay once and it is yours. Other planning tools charge $20 or more every month. Complete and Forever are single purchases, not subscriptions. Your access never expires and the price never changes.
Never. We are 100% user funded. No ads means no incentive to sell your data.
Start now
Your guest list is one link away from filling itself.
Set up your wedding in 30 seconds. Send the first personal link five minutes from now.